Finding humor in life's absurdity
#BigIdeas on how to un-serious your life :)
Looking for that ‘final’ moment when you achieve everything you set out to..and then can finally smile and say..’Now I am gonna be happy’ ?
Well, we all are on the same page and artist/illustrator, Maira Kalman has great advice on finding those little moments of joy in our daily life (instead of looking for thaattt one moment).
In a deeply insightful and humorously profound conversation, she explores the absurdities of life and finds joy in its seemingly mundane moments.
‘I used to be ashamed of my inconsistencies. Now I revel in them. Everything is in conflict, everything has an opposite, you are not bound to be one thing…’ – Maira Kalman
Sharing bigideas from her TED talk.
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Now, back to the big ideas from Maira 👇
The Joy of Ordinary Conversations
Daily conversations can serve as a beacon of inspiration.
Engaging in light-hearted discussions about life’s purpose and other philosophical questions can be more fulfilling than dwelling on somber topics.
Embracing Life’s Fragility
Reading obituaries over strong coffee may seem morose but it serves as a reminder of life’s fragility.
This awareness prompts one to seize each day fully and find solace in small wins like solving problems or overcoming challenges.
‘Every single day is invented.’ – Maira Kalman
The Liberation in Self-Contradictions
Embracing inconsistencies within oneself can lead to liberation rather than shame.
These conflicts often foster creativity and encourage meaningful work, leading to rewarding challenges.
Self-Loathing: A Catalyst for Perseverance
While self-loathing is an unavoidable condition for artists striving for perfection, it can also be a catalyst for greater humanism and perseverance if channeled correctly.
Walking as Salvation
Walking provides an opportunity to empty the mind, making room for new ideas to surface spontaneously.
It allows one to find joy in ordinary moments such as observing people or simple activities around them.
The Strength and Vulnerability of Holding
‘Holding’ symbolizes both strength and vulnerability especially when viewed from women’s roles in society – holding families together, their work responsibilities, memories, troubles, triumphs etc.
Balancing Creativity and Domesticity
Insights from filming ‘My Name is Alice B.Toklas’ highlight the balance between intense creativity and domesticity.
It emphasizes the importance of living fully amidst life’s sorrows and strangeness.
Humor in Absurdity
Finding humor in life’s absurdities can lead to profound insights and joys.
Embracing these aspects rather than avoiding them can be a source of genuine happiness and contentment.
‘I used to be ashamed of my inconsistencies. Now I revel in them. Everything is in conflict, everything has an opposite, you are not bound to be one thing…’ – Maira Kalman
Conviction in One’s Work
Having conviction in one’s work or perspective, even when misunderstood by others, is crucial.
Picasso’s confidence while painting Gertrude Stein’s portrait serves as an example of this.
Joy in Simple Pleasures
Simple pleasures such as eating a hot dog from a street vendor or dancing down Fifth Avenue can bring genuine happiness.
These seemingly mundane experiences are sources of authentic joy and contentment.
Living Fully Amidst Life’s Peculiarities
Living fully amidst life’s sorrows and peculiarities is a guiding principle worth adopting.
This philosophy encourages embracing every experience life has to offer with grace and humor.
Appreciation for Unique Perspectives
Unique perspectives on life, like Kalman’s, that encourage finding humor in its oddities are often appreciated by many.
They serve as reminders to embrace every experience with enthusiasm and joy.